Anonymous asked: Ok, so i'm 17 years old, female and i'm a virgin (although I do masturbate now and then and I have used dildos...) but next week I am planning on having sex with my boyfriend. How do I make him pleased and give him pleasure? any tips? I want to be great ;)
First time encounters with a new partner can always be little awkward, and dont always turn out amazing because..well practice makes perfect right? With any type of relationship, this includes sexual relationships, the key to them is communication and trying to pick up body language and facial cues.
There’s so much that can be done but it really depends on what your boyfriend prefers and enjoys. I would suggest to just go with it and do what feels comfortable and enjoyable for yourself and ask along the way if it feels nice for him too.
You can check out the FAQ for some more ideas, i’ve also included some links below for you if you’d like to check them out.
Check out the first link - it includes a lot of other links as well and provides a lot of important information before becoming sexually active. I would really recommend checking out the links within the first post but if you want to jump straight into it, Ive provided a couple of the links below as well.
“So you want to become sexually active”
using your hands to please your partner
Foreplay a how to guide
Fellatio and oral sex
Riding or being on top during sex
Hope these help but definitely check out the FAQ for other ideas!