Anonymous asked: Im having a lot of trouble with my husband and I's sex life. I have a very low sex drive and his is very high. We've tried just about everything we can think of to remedy the situation. I help him masturbate practically daily. He believes this is driving a wedge in our marriage but I dont think it is. Ive seen a guide posted here for these types of situations and tried everything suggested. What do you think we should do? :(
Honestly, just talk it out. Tell him how you feel and have him do the same. Maybe talking with a marriage councilor would help. This is an INCREDIBLY common issue so they would know lots of ways to help you both.
These are the posts I’ve reblogged on the subject:
If you want to have a higher sex drive FOR YOU (not just to please your partner) I do have a post with some tips.