Anonymous asked: I've never experienced a full on orgasm. Like things feel great, but I've never just full-blown orgasmed. And how would I know if actually a squirter?
Orgasms are different for everyone. There’s this myth when it comes to orgasms that it’s like this amazing fireworks of pure bliss that is unmistakable and unmatched by any other pleasure. This isn’t true. Some are just a little blip that’s barely noticeable. Some are really pleasant, others are intense but really the most important part is the pleasure you feel during sex. Orgasm is just the climax, the build up is what is fun, as is just being with another person or being one with your body.
As to squirting, find a way to vigorously stimulate your g-spot (there are g-spot vibrators that are helpful, or having a partner vigorously stimulate it with their fingers. Make sure you’re properly hydrated but don’t actually have to urinate and just experiment with stimulation. Like orgasming, don’t focus on the squirting. Just have fun and enjoy yourself.