Anonymous asked: I would like to buy my very first vibrator, but I am VERY intimidated by the size of the shafts on them. My vaginal opening is on the smaller size, and I don't think I will be able to insert half of the vibrators out there. What can someone do that has a smaller vaginal opening? Are there certain vibrators I can look into?

I wish every sex toy site had as good of a way to search for toys as EdenFantasys. Basically with that you can go to the sex toy section to vibrators and then click over to refine search. Scroll down, you can pick what kind of vibrator you want (I’d suggest rabbit or a traditional vibe if you’re looking for a penetrative vibe) You can click on what material grade you want, and a whole bunch of other factors as well as what you’re looking for, insertable length and diameter.

With Early2Bed I suggest looking in the “vibes for first timers” Section under vibrator. They have a first timer’s kit which looks really good, it has a standard thin vibrator AND a bullet vibe (for your clitoris) which is a personal favourite combination of mine.

Babeland also has a beginners vibrators section (a lot of places will, if you’re going in store as apposed to online you can ask the store clerk if you’re comfortable about beginner vibrators) and they have quite a few smaller insertable vibrators.

Just be aware that whenever you buy anything that’s not silicone/metal/glass/ceramic/wood/pure plastic it’s best to use a condom or other barrier with it, especially if it is made of rubber or jelly or has an odor. This is because more porous toys tend to not have pleasant chemicals in them and can cause vaginal infections or other physical issues like vaginal pain, cramping etc. They also tend to break down faster and are harder to clean. With anything it’s best to wash before and after use, the most standard method is to wash it with antibacterial soap. Just make sure not to get water near the battery pack.

-FYSE

-FYSE