Anonymous asked: I only recently told my boyfriend that I've been faking orgasms with him and that I've never had an orgasm before. He keeps trying things to help me orgasm but it usually makes me more and more frustrated. I feel like there's this huge pressure on me to orgasm. He says he doesn't care if I can't orgasm with him, but I think it matters to him more than he'll admit. My question is, how do I talk to him about this? I don't want to feel rushed or pressured during sex but I don't know how to tell him
Just be honest. Say you’re frustrated, it’s perfectly normal to be frustrated. Honestly, the best chance you have of orgasm is experimenting with masturbation and apply what you learn in the bedroom. However, know that not all people can orgasm so it’s important to not focus on orgasm during sex. Just focus on being with your partner and what you feel.