August 2012
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Anonymous asked: Is it normal for your hips to hurt when your about to get your period, and during it? My hip bones always hurt and I can never sit comfortably because they just feel like they're about to pop out of the socket or like they have pressure on them. It's just during the time of the month when I feel like this though. Should I talk to my doctor??
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: I'm confused about how to approach getting into a romantic/sexual relationship when I'm not interested in intercourse. I'm fine with showering together and other sensual things like that, but anything else is of no interest to me. Is there a word for this, and should I tell people in advance about this? Sorry, 3 questions, but I have no where else to ask.
Aug 31st
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TW: beastiality Anon: Can i get pregnant from my dog? So this is kind of weird uhm i got drunk by myself in my room this one time and i was really horny and i got naked and bent over and my dog did me from the back. i put his pink weiner in me and ya. im scared of getting pregnant. help FYSE: I really think this is a troll, especially as almost every single beastiality fic on literotica goes...
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: I'm on birth control, been on it since march, and every once in a while i'd get a yeast infection sometimes it'd bleed just little spotting :( what's wrong ?
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: I have a two part question =D First, sometimes when I'm self-pleasuring and fantasizing I'll get distracted half way through and just give up. Also, I know I'm a submissive person and I'm cool with that, but sometimes I fantasize about people doing to pretty screwed up things to me. Things that, in the fantasy only, I don't want them too. Does that make me like, a freak....
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: I can't acheive orgasm via what would be considered normal masterbation. Fingering, rubbing, even insertion with toys (I'm a virgin so I don't know if insertion of a penis would make a difference) don't work. The only way I'm able is by laying down on my stomach with a rolled/folded up pillow against my clit and rubbing myself down onto/against it (closest description...
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: hi i'm a 17 y/o guy and i don't really know what's going on. i can't orgasm off masturbating. if i use porn it won't work. i thought that it could mean i'm gay, but i never felt sexually attracted or emotionally attracted to a guy. so i don't know whats going on. if it helps, i never feel sexually attracted to a girl unless i'm in love with her. can you give...
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: People at my college and work are interested 'in me' all the time- how do I break it to them that I am asexual? I am incapable of loving them back - in that way. How do I tell them that it is me and not them? Most the people are really nice individuals and I really don't want to burst someones confidence in themselves/ruin some good friendships. Thank you!
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: My breast is really too flat. Is there anything I can do?
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: Hi, I have a question. If a couple uses a condom for most of the intercourse but takes it off & uses the pull out method correctly towards the end. He then wipes his penis off puts on another condom but takes it off towards the end again, and uses the pull out method correctly what are the chances of pregnancy? Also what if the girl took Plan B a week prior to this happening & is due to...
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: As a gender queer person, is it wrong/weird to have two seperate names for when I pass as male and female as opposed to just going by my given/feminine name or going by something unisex like Taylor or Jordan? A few times now it's come up in light conversation/talking about switching genders for the laughs, nd everyone always makes fun of my "boy name" but I really would like to pass...
Aug 31st
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samwhambamspam asked: Just sharing. For my understanding, severe cramps could also be a sign of Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome or ruptured cysts. Ruptured cysts can be a big deal. PCOS is also a big deal (despite what some doctors think) because if the lining doesn't get removed that's a big risk for cancer. Not saying all stomach cramps = this but education is key to prevention! If u do have PCOS, find a...
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: My vagina (That area, anyway ) sweats a lot. Is it okay to use deodorant there? My panties are always damp and it grosses me out.
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: (trigger warning-homophobic slur) I totally get what that last anon with the hetero friend was talking about. I'm queer, and my friends try to be as queer friendly as possible, except for one little slip up-one of my friends constantly uses "dyke" as an insult, and her excuse is that she uses it basically to mean asshole. It's kind of really annoying.
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: Is it normal to have uncontrollable spasms when a female has an orgasm?
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: I saw a question and answer from a few pages back where a woman described a feeling of hitting a wall during sex. Your answer pinpointed the cervix as the 'wall' and suggested methods of intercourse that allowed for a shallower penetration but my issue is that, while I have the same sensation, mine occurs from mere - relatively shallow - fingering. Is this something I should be concerned...
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: I gave this guy a blow job and it has been bothering me for a while, but why don't I enjoy it? I know its kinda more purposely for just for guys enjoyment, like girls getting figured. I got nothing out of it and just don't see why I don't like them when some other girls I know around me do. Am I just into it and they are?
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: I don't really feel anything when I put a dildo inside of me. I only feel excited when I touch my clit, is that normal? Also, after a while, masturbating from just clit stimulation isn't as amazing as it was at first. I'm just kind of like "Eh, okay that feels good I guess." and then I'm done. Is there anything else I can do? Granted, I tend to rush through it because...
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: I am currently on antibiotics and birth control pills. I have heard that the antibiotics can cancel the birth control. Should I stop using birth control while I'm on antibiotics or should I just continue and use barriers?
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: My boyfriend is uncircumcised and on the small side. Does him being uncrcumsized make him smaller.
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: I appreciate this blog! Thank you for all of the information and your dedication to educating people.
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: Hi! I'm interested in trying out cloth pads. Where can I get them, and is there any information that I should know about them before I start? Thank you!
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: hi. sorry if this is a weird question. i've never orgasmed. i can really get going with my hand--but after a while, my hand sort of hurts. i've bought vibrators (a bullet and a rabbit) but they never seem to do it for me. It just feels, well, like they're vibrating without ever doing anything if that makes sense. i don't get any pleasure from it, and i've tried several...
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: back when i was little i often had cystitis but it eventually stopped after 2-3 years and now i only have it when i am on my period, is it normal/ what can i do to stop it? it is really painful
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: i have bad period cramps. you said to get it checked out by a doctor if it makes it hard for you to go about your day, but which it does, but what if im just being a baby and need to suck it up? after all, everyone has cramps! so idk if i should go to a doctor or not, i feel like they wouldnt really do anything except say "take midol". what are possible things they might tell someone...
Aug 31st
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TW: Sexual Abuse, child pornography
you didn’t really answer my question about the 18+ laws. i want to know what i can and can not do in different parts of the world. mostly the US since i live there. does everyone naked on the internet have to be 18+? like if i go to one place and upload a picture is it ok because its legal there? can someone in one country look at naked “minors” if their from a country where its...
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: My hetero cis-female friend, who isn't remotely homophobic (like she signs petitions to legalize gay marriage) keeps using various words for "homosexual" as insults. She knows I am bi and in a relationship with a lesbian, but will still use the various words to other people when I'm around. Though she's careful not to use any of those words as direct insults to me, she...
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: Sorry if I sound stupid but I was wondering if it hurts when I insert tampons will it hurt to be penetrated?
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: I frequently get vaginal irritation (itching, burning, occasionally full blown yeast infections) when I have regular (i.e. once or twice a day) penetrative sex with my boyfriend, which clears away when we stop having sex for a few days. Is this a common problem? Is there something I can do to prevent this from happening (other that not having penetrative sex)? We use non-latex condoms, because I...
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: what are cismale and cisfemales? sorry if that's incorrect, but I feel like I would understand a lot of your posts more if I knew if it applied to me?
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: Why does my right side of my jaw hurt while giving a blowjob?
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: I was wondering if you had any info about getting birth control for free or at reduced prices in Canada. I've heard of programs that can help girls out who don't have enough money to afford their pills but I don't know the names. I'm about to lose my medical insurance I have with my parents because I am no longer attending school, so I'm gonna have to start paying for my...
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: My boyfriend & I have been together for 3 months and we've had sex a few times (we were both each other's first). He enjoys himself every time and he always WANTS to have sex, but he has anxiety problems and he worries himself every time. A few times we just haven't even done it because he gets himself scared. Is there any ways I can calm him down or he can make himself calm...
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: More for queer follow-up. *waves* Honestly it's not like anyone can tell by looking at you that you're cis or straight. Just be a good ally and have fun. :D Also, OF COURSE YOU CAN WEAR RAINBOWS. The GSM community doesn't have a patent on it or anything. :) My cis friend just reeeeaaaally like rainbows (kind of a MLP thing) but I'm not gonna sit there and tell her she...
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: queer person here also agreeing that it's acceptable! as long as you don't make it about you (oh, i'm gracing you with my straight cis presence or something like that) then i don't see why not! one of the most supportive people in my life is my straight cis sister. :)
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: hi, to the person asking if it is acceptable to go to pride events. yes it very very much is! I've gone every year for 3 years and I am also a straight cisfemale you are allowed to show your pride and acceptance towards the community and that is exactly what the day is for! if your friend invited you then go! you shouldn't have to censor anything you say, just be understanding and hey!...
Aug 31st
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Anonymous asked: Is it acceptable, for me, as a cis straight woman, to go to a pride event? I mean things like the SF pride parade, Oakland pride, not queer spaces, such as clubs/bars, etc. Is it any more acceptable if I am going with an organization (such as a school GSA) or with a queer friend who invited me? What if they want me there so they are more comfortable? Is it okay to dress up for such an event, if...
Aug 30th
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Anonymous asked: Oral sex makes your day, Anal sex makes your hole weak.
Aug 30th
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Anonymous asked: Is it normal to experience really bad shaking and sudden, I suppose, body temperature drops during the first few days of your period?
Aug 30th
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TW: Abuse, trauma
Anon: I was wondering how ‘insignificant’ a traumatic experience could be and still cause involuntary physical reactions? I was never really ‘abused’ (at least, not how I view it), but I did put myself into situations that made me less than comfortable. I’ve been told by both my gyno and massage therapist that my body responds physically in a similar way as someone...
Aug 30th
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Anonymous asked: why don't you use tampons ?
Aug 30th
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Anonymous asked: Why do guys have nipples?
Aug 30th
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Anonymous asked: is a blood test for lupus definitive? i have been tested once before with negative results but have some of the major symptoms. my aunt has lupus and she said it took them years to diagnose it...but that was long ago and i'm not sure how advanced the test is now.
Aug 30th
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Anonymous asked: Ive been wanting to switch to cloth pads/and cloth panty liners but am a little confused as to the process of changing out of them...when one is on their period with a cloth pad do you carry around with you a bunch of them and throw the dirty one into a bag or something while you're out and about? and for pantyliners, i have a lot of discharge and constantly change my pantyliners..would i...
Aug 30th
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Anonymous asked: Is it appropriative to use the spoons analogy ("I don't have the spoons") as someone with a chronic mental health problem such as depression? I was not aware until today of its history with physically disabled people (including invisible disorders) so I used it a few times casually without realizing that it was not mine to use - I was careless but now I know. I guess this question...
Aug 30th
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Anonymous asked: I've recently gained weight & went up a cup size and I'm afraid my nipples have gotten bigger. How big are they supposed to be? I can also see little blue veins under the skin around my nipples. Is that normal? What can I do to fix it if not? Is there any way to make my nipples cute and small again?
Aug 30th
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Anonymous asked: How does using only one hand per genital reduce risks? My boyfriend takes some time to finish and I usually get tired with one hand if I need to manually finish him, so I do tend to switch hands. How is this risky?
Aug 30th
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Anonymous asked: I know flavored lubes should not be used for penis-in-vagina sex, but what about penis-in-anus?
Aug 30th
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mamabirdmargaritas asked: For the person scared about pregancy and abortion, don't forget the abortionassistance tumblr! There are lots of people willing to talk, and if you end up needing an abortion, there are also people willing to help with transportation, costs, and so on.
Aug 30th
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Anonymous asked: We are first timers: What are some good condoms (kind of thin?)? I'm about 5 and a half inches. Also, what about lube? I want it to be as painless for her as possible, what are good kinds and how much should we use? Also, what are the chances of her getting pregnant if we use condoms and birth control? Kind of clueless when it comes to lube and condoms. Don't want to do anything wrong,...
Aug 30th